1/20/2023 0 Comments Neeya naana latest episodeThis, after at least two women on the show spoke about having to do a less expensive course because their parents were only willing to cough up that much money for the boys in the family.Īs one of the women put it, “Whenever we (girls) asked for something as children, it was denied to us and we were told the money was being saved for our wedding. Now when we ask for things at the time of marriage, they say they can’t give. Why would the sons want anything “in return” when their gender privilege ensures that everything is handed over to them on a platter? Although Gobinath did make a point about girls being unwanted in their homes later in the show, the tone of the narrative was largely an indictment of their “greed”, rather than analysing how tilted the equation is.Īlso worrisome was how the young women’s wishes to stay independent of their in-laws was viewed. Known as “thani kuduthanam”, the desire to move away from the husband’s parents has been the hallmark of a “villi” in Tamil society as well as popular culture. When one of the young women said that she’d like her parents to buy household appliances for her new home, Gobinath asked her why she’d need all that since her husband’s home was likely to have them already. The young woman’s response – that perhaps she’d live with her husband separately – drew mocking laughter from the anchor and the mothers.
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